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What women really crave...
6 Weird Secrets For Getting One Night Stands

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Hey (FIRST NAME),

Want to know how to nail that girl who says
she "just wants to be friends"...and make her
think it was HER idea to have sex with YOU?

This unusual video from my friend Dean
Cortez reveals a weird (but proven) trick
for "accelerating" your conversations with
women and getting them into your bed FAST:

 

Forget about getting stuck in the "friend zone"
ever again. (Trust me, I've been there...and
it SUCKS to feel frustrated and powerless with
a girl you really like...)

Instead, Dean's going to show how to quickly
become a rejection-proof chick magnet that
women want to have sex with.

And you'll do it fast, without having to take
girls out on dates and spend your hard-earned
money while HOPING you "get lucky" somewhere
down the line...

It's all about knowing how to skip the boring
small talk and FLIRT with girls instead...in
a super-confident, sexy, playful way that
pushes her "sexual attraction buttons"...

So that you'll get laid as much as you want,
with the girls you want the most.

Instead of spending another weekend going out
and NOT getting laid, you'll be able to pull
off as many One Night Stands and Same Night
Lays as you want.

(Don't be surprised if your buddies get super
jealous and BEG you to reveal your "secrets!")

But what I really love about Dean's "Speed

Closing" tactics is that you can use them on
ANY girl...

Including a girl you're friends with, but
you want to CRANK IT UP and turn her into
your lover...or your girlfriend.

Watch this quick video and learn Dean's
closely-guarded "escalation" strategy, and
you'll get her into your bed in no time...
and from there, it's UP TO YOU where you
want to take the relationship.

The tactics in this video are so easy to
learn, you can use them to hook up tonight:

 

By the way, Dean's tips on how to DOMINATE
bars and nightclubs are PURE GOLD.

He'll show you 7 field-tested routines you
can use to approach girls at bars and clubs
and INSTANTLY "hook" their attention...

Create fast attraction and "sexual chemistry..."

And get them smiling, laughing, and flirting
with you in no time...

Even if she's with a group of friends - or
with another guy!

Even better, you'll learn 3 Sneaky Questions
you can ask a girl...in the first five minutes...
to determine whether she's up for sex with you
tonight.

If you're a "Nice Guy" who has a hard time
closing the deal, this video gives you the
shortcut to getting sexual with women...

And if you're a bit of a "Bad Boy" and you
want to know how to TURBO CHARGE
your skills...well, the secrets contained in this
video are going to make you a total bad-ass:

 

Talk soon,

(YOUR NAME)

P.S. I have to ask you to please use these
methods ethically and responsibly, because
they're proven to affect women on a DEEP
subconscious level and flip "sexual attraction
switches" that 97% of guys aren't aware of...

(Truthfully, most WOMEN don't even know
they've got these switches inside of them!
And once you learn how to "flip" them, your
sex life is going to SKYROCKET...)

Dean told me he's getting a lot of heat for
this video, so watch it now before it gets
pulled offline:

 

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How to unleash her "naughty" side

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Hi (FIRST NAME),

I hope you received my email about the new
ONE NIGHT STANDS video from my friend
Dean Cortez:

 

In this video, Dean reveals a *weird* (and
easy to learn) method to SPEED CLOSE with
any woman and get her into your bed, fast.

If you've ever had a hard time closing the
deal with a girl you like, and being MORE
than "just friends" with her...

Or if you've ever wondered how to ESCALATE
with a girl you just met at a bar, nightclub
or party...and you want to get her home with
you TONIGHT, instead of going home alone
with only her phone number...

Then watch the first few minutes of this
video, because Dean opens up his seduction
black book and exposes his most powerful
(and controversial) "escalation method"
for the first time:

 

(By the way, Dean told me this video might get
taken down tonight...he's getting a LOT of heat
for it, and you'll see why...)

If you're one of those "Nice Guys" who thinks
you've got to take a girl on a bunch of dates,
and spend lots of money on her, in order to
hopefully "get lucky" sometime in the future...

Then DO NOT watch this video, because it's
going to destroy your whole belief system
about sex and what women REALLY crave:

 

But if you're looking to skip the whole "Friend
Zone" and put your sex life in overdrive...

If you're ready to get more girls, and HOTTER
girls, into your bed...in a way that's fast,
easy and fail-proof...then click on this link
to learn the ultimate "shortcut to sex":

 

The cool thing about this method is that she'll
be LOVING EVERY MINUTE...

Because you'll be the super-confident, playful,
mischevious guy who knows EXACTLY how
to push her "hot buttons" (and unleash her
naughty side...)

I trust you'll use these secrets responsibly. I
just hope the video is still up by the time you
get this email. Take a look:

 

Talk soon,

(YOUR NAME)

 

One of the most powerful techniques in The One Night Stands Playbook is learning how to "plant seeds" in a woman's mind about your own attractive qualities.

This is a subtle way of letting her know about your positive characteristics, without ever sounding like you're bragging.

But to LOCK DOWN the One Night Stand and make it a sure thing, you'll need to take it a step further and plant some seeds that eliminate her OBJECTIONS.

If you want more of the next, next level "advanced" stuff to be a MASTER ot closing women for one night stands, download this:

 

Women naturally have 5 main objections, programmed into their brains, that tell them why they shouldn't go home with a guy they just met.

For some girls, these objections are just a minor concern in the back of their minds. After a couple of drinks they forget all about them.

Some girls don't worry about this stuff at all.

But with other girls, you're going to need to overcome all 5 in order to make her feel comfortable with having sex with you tonight.

There's no way of knowing whether any of these objections, or all of them, are important to her. That's why I try to eliminate all five during the course of the conversation; this way, I know I've covered all the bases.

I don't have enough space here to cover all 5 objections, but let me give you 3 big ones:

1) She may get pregnant (yes, women have a fear of this -- you can't blame 'em!)

2) She might suffer social consequences (i.e. her friends/peers will find out she had sex with you, and think she's a slut)

3) She really likes you and is interested in a possible relationship, and she's worried that if she has sex with you too soon, you won't respect her or want to date her.

The way to eliminate these objections, without sounding obvious, is to tell short stories that plant the right seeds in her mind.

These stories can reference your own experiences (they don't need to actually be true), or about people you know.

As you gain more experience using these tactics with women, you'll start coming up with all kinds of stories and "seeds."

I'll share a few ones that I use.

A tactic that allows you to introduce ANY subject into the conversation is to take your phone out of your pocket, as if you just received a text message, and check your phone screen.

Then use the imaginary text message to start a new topic.

I can say, "My friend Ben texted me. He just left here with a girl he met. I'm just going to text him and tell him to be safe...hey, you gotta use protection. That's one of my big rules."

Or I can tell a quick story: "One time I hooked up with a girl and right in the middle of it she tried to pull the condom off. I actually had to kick her out of bed because she didn't want to use one. Isn't that crazy?"

You get the idea.

Slip into the conversation the fact that you always practice safe sex. Then you can change the subject. The seed has been planted in her mind.

What about objection #2, that she might suffer social consequences?

First, keep in mind that women are naturally very concerned about their social status & value. It's a big deal to them. She doesn't anyone to think of her as being a "slut."

If this is a girl you work with, or go to school with, she's going to be even MORE concerned about her "image" being tarnished.

Or, maybe she has a boyfriend (or a husband!)

What if he finds out?

There could be another guy in her life she isn't telling you about. She might have a lot at stake here, and she can't afford to sleep with a guy who can't keep a secret.

This is why you've got to let her know you are a DISCREET dude. Tell a quick story that demonstrates you don't "kiss and tell."

I can pretend to check a text message on my phone, or glance across the room at some guy (pretending like I know him), and say something along the lines of:

"My friend Mike is so pissed. Last night he went out for drinks with his co-workers, and the tequila shots got out of control...he ended up sharing a taxi with this girl from the accounting department who's had a huge crush on him forever, and they kissed a little in the backseat. Just a stupid, drunken moment on Mike's part.

And today when he got to his office, everyone was cracking jokes about it and busting Mike's balls. It turns out the girl told everyone! Mike feels terrible about it because he's got a serious girlfriend and now this crazy chick he works with is telling everyone they're DATING, which is totally not true. I just think it's so uncool when people kiss and tell, don't you?"

Or...

"I did something the other night I probably shouldn't have...I hooked up with one of my sister's friends. It was just a casual, one-time thing. But then, the weirdest thing happened...the next night another one of her friends called me to hang out.

Apparently she'd talked to the girl I slept with, and now SHE wanted to be with me. And then another one of my sister's friends called me. I was kind of flattered... but I don't get why women have to tell everyone they know about something private that happened between two people. I've got some good stories (smile) but I always keep them to myself..."

This story communicates several things:

1 – I'm a mature guy who has a normal sex life and I know how it's supposed to go when two people hook up. I don't stalk women or get hung up on them. So, this girl doesn't need to worry about any problems later if we hook up tonight.

2 – I value discretion. I think it's very uncool when people share details with their friends about their intimate encounters.

This stuff should be kept between the two people. She doesn't need to worry about me blabbing about what went down between us.

3 – I'm a rock star in bed :) Obviously, all these girls who wanted to hang out with me heard some good things about my skills, right?

The cool thing is, I can communicate these three points -- all of which say very positive things about me -- without ever sounding like I'm trying to bring them up, or trying to impress my target.

At the same time, I'm overcoming her objections.

If we wind up having sex tonight, she knows I'm not the type of guy who is going to cause problems for her.

(If you want to learn the *secrets* on how the "pros of the pros" meet, connect & "close" women at 10X the speed, you can get their *black book* here):

 

Now let's move on to the third objection (she likes you, and worries that if she has sex with you tonight you won't want to see her again).

You can neutralize this the objection by playing up why the two of you will be hanging out in the future. She may be up for a no-strings-attached One Night Stand the same as you, but it's still a good idea to neutralize this objection because it can make her feel more comfortable -- knowing that it isn't your intention to bang her and kick her to the curb.

Mention how the two of you are doing to do something together in the future. Don't try to make any specific plans, like, "Next Friday night you and I are going out to dinner."

Instead, make VAGUE suggestions that sound really fun.

If you find out you both like the same band, say something like "The next time they come here to do a show, you and me are totally going. I'm getting us tickets."

Or if you find out you both love a certain party destination, tell her "one of these days we're totally going there together. We'll have a blast, just promise me you won't get us into too much trouble."

If you find out she's into working out, you tell her "you need to be my personal trainer. I'm coming to your gym sometime so you can show me your routine."

Or, you tell her that you're going to show her something: how to play guitar, how to surf, how to create a blog, whatever you're into that she expresses interest in learning.

Or, plan a road trip with her:

"I'm looking to do a road trip soon. Have you ever done that-packed up your car with a cooler full of food and drinks, and hit the road with your friends to go someplace totally new and have an adventure?"

When she says it sounds like fun, I tell her, "You and I have to go on a road trip one of these days. Are you in?"

Note:

Getting her excited about going on some adventure, going to see an amazing concert, etc. also creates the perfect opportunity for you to start building physical contact with her.

Give her a high-five. Or thumb-wrestle her to decide who drives and who gets to ride shotgun. Or make her "pinky swear" that you're going to do this thing together.

This plan will probably never happen.

It can even be crazy and ridiculous:

"Julia, what's a place you've always dreamed of visiting? Don't give me a lame answer...seriously, if we could teleport anywhere in the world right now, where would you want to go?"

She says, "Paris."

"OK, Paris it is. I see us spending a few years in Paris living the glamorous life and then moving out to the country. I'm thinking a cool little chateau in the south of France. That's a better place for us to raise our six kids.

But it's going to be expensive for us to get set up over in Paris, so here's the plan. You and I are going to start robbing banks. I go in and hold ‘em up, and you drive the getaway car. Once we've saved up a few million bucks, and the cops are closing in, we jump on the next plane to Paris and live happily ever after."

The crazier these "plans" sound, the better they work -- because she'll be more likely to play along and say "sure, why not! Sounds great!" On a conscious level, she knows it will never actually happen -- but on a subconscious level, she's imagining doing these things with you and enjoying the fantasy.

Do some fun "role playing," and you'll build the idea in her mind that the two of you have a relationship that will go beyond tonight -- even if you only met a half-hour ago.

When it comes to romance, women live in the realm of fantasy. Have you ever watched a soap opera on television or read a romance novel?

To us, this stuff seems like corny, unrealistic crap. But to women, it sparks sexual fantasies -- the idea of leaving their boring lives and being swept away by some mysterious, romantic stranger.

What you're doing here is injecting fun into the conversation in a huge way. The guy who makes her feel the most fun is usually the guy who has the best chance of taking her home.

REMEMBER: Instead of telling stories like the ones above, you can flip it around and come up with your OWN objections about HER!

In other words, pretend like YOU have the objections... and now it's her job to convince you there won't be any problems if tonight leads to sex.

"Cindi, just promise me that if we hook up you're not going to fall in love with me way too fast. I do have effect on women sometimes."

(She laughs and assures me that no, she's not that type of girl. Obviously, I'm not that type of person either.)

Or, to let her know you're a "discreet" guy, you could say:

"My friend John hooked up with a girl at this bar once. She was drop-dead gorgeous and seemed cool...but then the next day she called him six times to try to see him again and started sending him all these crazy texts, like, 'I think I love you...' 'You'd better not be seeing any other girls...'

it was like the movie Fatal Attraction! He had to change his number. Why are some people like that?"

Here's another way to achieve the same thing, using fewer words.

You point out a guy and a girl who are making out in the venue. Say to your target, "Promise me you're not going to try to make out with me here in front of everyone. That's totally not my style."

To neutralize the objection about you possibly never wanting to see her again, you can say "Promise me that if you wind up seducing me tonight, you'll still respect me in the morning."

(You can add, "And that we'll still go on that road trip together." (Or whatever "vague plans" you made with her earlier.)

You've planted the seed in her mind: you are the OPPOSITE of the objection you are raising.

Now, I mentioned earlier that there are 5 Objections you'll want to overcome. I gave you three of them. The other two are in The One Night Stands Playbook, and they're also extremely important. But with some clever, creative techniques, they're also easy to overcome :)

Those along with so many vital things you MUST pay attention to as you're trying to speed-close a girl, any thing could go wrong at ANY time and you've got to be quick as LIGHTNING and be tactful as hell to manage, deal, control & LEAD her into the exact direction you want her to go into.

See -- as I started to do research on the topic, I found that even though this stuff was right out "in plain sight", no one had ever really noticed or DESCRIBED it.

To make a long story short, I took this new "secret" information that I discovered, and put together an entire program to teach it to other guys...

As far as I know, this is the ONLY program of its kind ever created.

In fact, I get emails all the time from guys who say that just one time through this program instantly changed their views on women and attraction... and allowed them to spark attraction and build "chemistry" or "sexual tension" with women in every type of situation... IMMEDIATELY.

And they did it at LIGHTNING SPEED.

"Sexy" communication is what I call it. women LOVE it. And if you wanna know how it's done, you can learn all about it here:

 

Enjoy!

YOUR NAME HERE

You should know by now that when it comes to scoring a one-night-stand, both SPEED and TACT is of essence.

So let's say you've used a solid Opener, you've determined that this girl fits your logistical criteria, and the conversation is flowing.

Now it's your job to CONTROL the conversation and "tweak" her emotions to make her feel curiosity and sexual attraction.

In order to drive up her attraction, you'll need to frame yourself as a CHALLENGE.

You're not the typical, ordinary guy who is agreeing with everything she says, and trying to impress her!

The question isn't whether YOU are worthy of HER.

No, the way you "frame" this conversation is that it's HER job to impress YOU.

Is she fun enough?

Cool enough?

Adventurous enough?

Sexual enough? Etc.

When you turn the tables and make women want to earn YOUR approval, you're well on your way to achieving the One Night Stand.

If you want to be the *KING* at turning the tables with women & getting them to obey your every "command", go here:

 

Now, here are some tactics you can use to turn the tables, frame yourself as a high-value guy, and drive up her interest and attraction:

* Use backhanded compliments. These are statements that sound like compliments initially, but then you slip in a "jab." (These should sound like playful teases, not insults.) This technique is also known as Push/Pull.

"You're the funnest girl I've met...in the last five minutes."

* "You're cute, but I detect a bitchy high-maintenance vibe from you. I bet all your ex-boyfriends say you're a handful."

When she protests and playfully slaps you on the arm, you say "only kidding. Actually, not really...but it's okay, you seem fun. Are you?" (Keep testing & challenging her)

* Mention how you two shouldn't date, or aren't compatible. This technique always catches women by surprise...and makes them feel curious to know more about you, because you're doing the exact opposite of what most guys do! Say things like...

"You I could never be boyfriend and girlfriend. We're way too much alike. We'd probably clash all the time, and then have crazy, wild make-up sex and wake up all the neighbors...and then we'd break up again the next day and you'd throw my clothes out in the front yard...it would be hot, but a whole lot of drama."

"It's too bad I swore off dating girls like you..." (change the subject and don't explain)

"I've always had a thing for women who are tall/short/blonde/Asian/etc. (something she is NOT)

"I'm all wrong for you. You're probably used to dating 'nice guys' who kiss your butt and bring you flowers on the first date."

"You're such a nice girl -- you shouldn't be hanging out with a guy like me. I could get you in all kinds of trouble."

"You're really sweet...but seriously, you should probably be talking to a nice boy like the one over there (point to some dorky-looking dude). I'm more like the guy your mom warned you about."

OK, moving onto more "teasing" tactics...

* Put her in the Friend Zone. This tactic is also very powerful because it reverses the normal roles. Usually it's women who put guys in the Friend Zone, right? But you can do it to her!

"You're like the little sister I never had." (Or, "You remind me so much of one of my little sister's friends.")

"It's good we met, I don't know if we're right for each other but we can be friends for sure."

"I can tell you would make a great friend. You're so nice."

* Blame All Flirtations On Her. This is another fun way to "flip the script" and show confidence. Play around with her and get her to start feeling some attraction, and then "blame" her for what's happening:

"Here I am trying to have a serious conversation with you, and you keep giving me flirty looks. Cut it out, would you? It's distracting."

"If you keep looking at me that way, I'm going to have to turn on the charm and seduce you."

"If you don't stop being so cute, you're going to force me to start hitting on you."

"I hope your boyfriend isn't around, because if you keep smiling at me that way I'm going to be forced to start flirting with you."

(Notice, you're not telling her you are hitting on her/flirting with you right now. You're saying that it might happen soon, and it's going to be "her fault.")

"I really ought to get home because I have work tomorrow, but if you keep flirting me like this you're going to force me to have another drink with you."

"You're making me think such naughty thoughts. Do you have voodoo powers or something? Stop it, I'm trying to concentrate on what you're saying."

"You are totally trying to seduce me right now. Stop looking at me that way. I promised myself I'd be celibate for the next 30 days and you're messing everything up."

"I'm don't know why, but you keep making me think about us going to the mall and picking out a bunch of sexy lingerie for you at Victoria's Secret. Cut it out, OK? I don't want to be thinking about that stuff right now."

"I came out tonight to have a couple of beers and chill, and then you come along and force me to start flirting with you. It's all YOUR fault for wearing that dress."

* Employ her/fire her: "I like you. I'm hiring you as my personal assistant." Or, "I've always thought that my life would make a great book. I'm hiring you as my personal biographer. Start taking notes." (If she knows how to build websites, make her your website developer. If photography is one of her hobbies, she's now your personal photographer. Or your chef. Or personal trainer...)

Then, when she does something dorky or gives a lame answer to one of your questions, you "fire" her: "That's it -- you're fired. Tell the cute blonde over there she can submit her resume."

By using these tactics (and many others that are explained in The One Night Stands Playbook), you're FRAMING the tone of the conversation and staying in control at all times. She probably can't remember the last time she met a guy who showed such confidence, self-control, and playful humor...who made her feel that she needs to STEP UP and earn your approval!

But you won't make it easier on her ;)

You'll continue to use cocky humor and "teases," while at the same time ESCALATING (verbally and physically) and priming her for sex tonight.

I explain this concept in more detail within my ONS program. This program will give you an in-depth education on how to think and behave in such the way the REAL PROS do... no matter what your looks, height, income, age, etc.

You will learn literally HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS of killer ideas for getting over your fears, approaching women, speed seducing & speed closing the women you want.

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Enjoy!

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The average guy feels awkward about approaching girls because he worries his opening lines will sound obvious and cliche.

He doesn't have anything clever to say and knows he'll have to resort to something along the lines of "So, do you come here often?"

Once you've made your three-point intro, you can start the conversation with a simple question along those lines. The trick lies in how you phrase it. We refer to this concept as "Creative Phrasing."

This means re-wording the question so that it sounds fresh and original, and prompts her to give thoughtful response.

(For more details on the three-point intro, go here):

 

If she's well dressed-this could be as simple as a nice-fitting pair of jeans-compliment her on her outfit.

Attractive women take great care with their appearance. If you spent two hours at the mall shopping for the outfit you've got on, and spent an hour getting your hair just right, wouldn't you want to be noticed?

Wouldn't it feel nice to have a stranger recognize the time and effort you put into how you look?

There is no reason to feel shy about paying a girl an original compliment.

The key is to be SPECIFIC.

If she's wearing an eye-catching skirt, blouse, or shoes, or has an stylish purse, single out that aspect and compliment it.

Never compliment her on how beautiful she is.

That is a deadly cliché which attractive women hear on a daily basis from over-aggressive guys. Tell her she has great style instead. No woman ever gets tired of hearing that.

Attach a question to the compliment, and you'll open the door to conversation.

"I just wanted to tell you that I noticed your outfit. I love that color on you. I'm just curious-where did you get that dress?"

If the girl is fashion-conscious, which is very likely the case, then it's a subject she enjoys talking about. Chances are she'll tell you where she bought it.

If she wonders why you asked, tell her you need to shop for a birthday present for a girl you work with, and thought that the item you noticed (purse, skirt, shoes, etc.) might be a good gift.

This compliment/question accomplishes a number of things.

You're showing that you noticed a specific detail about her, while most guys only stare at her body; that you appreciate good style; and that you have female friends, and are thoughtful enough to buy them birthday gifts.

What woman would be turned off by those qualities?

Now that the door is open to a conversation, you're going to act casual and nonchalant. But remember, everything you say from this point forward is calculated.

You are going to pose questions, give answers, and guide the conversation with an "invisible hand."

If you are in a nightclub/bar, do not offer to buy her a drink at this stage. It may seem like the natural thing to do, but it's too soon for you to lay out cash.

First, you need to get things flowing and determine whether this girl, regardless of how good she looks, is worth your time and money.

You are the Mack, and the Mack is the one in charge of the encounter.

Adopt the mindset that it is yours to continue, or cancel.

You can always move on to the next.

Questions should be creatively phrased to avoid giving her the option of a simple "yes" or "no" answer. You want her to open up and talk, not respond with a single word.

Relating this principle to law enforcement, there is a trick that cops use when they're trying to get a crook to spill the beans.

Let's say a cop suspects a guy of robbing a house on Main Street last night around midnight.

The wrong way to phrase the question would be, "Were you on Main Street last night at midnight?"

This allows the suspect to simply answer "no" and leave it at that. It is an easy question to dodge.

The more effective question is always, "Where were you last night at midnight?"

Note the difference. Now the crook is forced to elaborate and come up with an explanation. He may hesitate (which indicates guilt), or he may be forced into a lie (which can be turned against him).

Not that you'll NEVER want to take an "interrogation" tone with women, but understand the difference between asking a yes/no question, and encouraging a more thoughtful response.

Cliché question: "So do you come here often?"

Mack question: "You strike me as a girl who has her finger on the pulse of this town. Tell me your top three spots when you go out on the weekends."

In the ONS Playbook, you'll learn the exact step-by-step process for ESCALATING in every sense...so that your conversations with women never get stuck in the "Friend Zone."

(You can get it here if you haven't already):

 

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Negotiators constantly use Creative Phrasing with hostage takers.

One example is how a Negotiator will never use the word "gun."

Instead of saying, "I need you to lower that gun," he'll say "I need you to lower that thing."

Why?

Because the word "gun" carries violent connotations that might make the hostage taker more excitable. Calling it a "thing" diminishes the weapon's power.

Apply the same principle when a girl talks about her boyfriend or ex-boyfriend. Never refer to him by his name; refer to him as "that guy," thereby diminishing his significance.

He is not an actual person to you. He is a figment of the past, not even worth discussing.

HER: "My ex, John, was such a lying bastard. We were engaged to be married and I found out he was sleeping with my best friend."

YOU: "It sounds like that guy didn't deserve you, but I know you've moved on and you've got a lot of cool things going on. I actually want to hear more about your dog, I've been thinking about getting a pet but I'm not sure if a dog or a cat is the way to go..."

Note: get her on the subject of her pets, and watch her start smiling and chatting away...

Of course, this is one part of a much bigger picture of how to use your personality to create sexual tension and ATTRACTION from the VERY BEGINNING of your interactions with women.

(You can get the FULL IN-DEPTH look at how the REAL masters use them to speed-close women FAST here):

 

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Women say it all the time: a sense of humor is a very desirable quality in a man.

This gives hope to a lot of guys who aren't confident in their looks, but are quick with words. The problem is that for most "funny" guys, their sense of humor is a defense mechanism.

They're insecure about trying to connect with women, so they keep things light and try to make a joke out of everything.

Don't think that just because you're making her laugh that you're building any real connection.

The more she laughs, the less she is focusing on romantic possibilities.

There is also a BIG difference between humor and wit.

Humor is a HAND GRENADE; wit is a SNIPER RIFLE.

You want to demonstrate the LATTER quality instead of being the guy busting out joke after joke, or trying to be the life of the party.

It's better to pick your moments to make witty comments and observations.

If you possess a sharp sense of wit, you've got a great advantage with women.

If not, the good news is that this is a skill that can be developed.

The best way to do so is to listen and learn from your favorite comedians.

Notice the topics they riff on and the way they deliver their punch lines. Usually, the more "straight" their delivery is, the funnier they are.

As you build yourself as a Mack and learn more about music, movies, books and current events, you will be able to make more clever observations about things.

Save the rapid-fire one-liners and raunchy stories for when you're hanging with your buddies, and stay away from telling drawn-out jokes (i.e. "Three guys walk into a bar...").

Just think of how uncomfortable it feels when someone you barely know starts telling a long-winded joke at a party: you're all standing around waiting for the punch line, at which point you're required to pretend it was hilarious, just to be polite.

(Besides, the funniest jokes are usually the dirty or politically incorrect ones, which may offend her.)

Also, when you're around women, don't tell jokes at the expense of others.

Don't crack jokes about any of your buddies; not only is that being a lousy wingman (as has been DEEPLY explain here):

 

but it can create an awkward atmosphere.

And if you've got a self-deprecating sense of humor, keep it in check. Your goal is to build yourself up in her eyes, not knock yourself down.

Remember that while the occasional well-timed line can make you look sharp and clever, your primary focus should be listening, guiding the conversation and strengthening the bridge.

Really, one or two clever, funny comments are all it takes to show her you possess a sense of humor.

No need to keep the jokes coming one after the next. Minimal Encouragers

As you converse, you're letting her do much of the talking.

Resist the urge to jump in and start telling her what you think. Instead, use Minimal Encouragers-a technique used by Hostage Negotiators-to keep things flowing.

Some examples of Minimal Encouragers are:

• "Wow, it seems like we're really on the same page. Tell me more."
• "I was thinking exactly the same thing."

• "I feel the same way. We definitely have some things in common."
• "That's an interesting concept. Tell me how you came up with it."
• "Is that right?"
• "How did that make you feel?"

Women deeply appreciate a man who listens and empathizes.

As she tells you more about herself, and you acknowledge and appreciate what she's saying, it reinforces the bridge you're building between the two of you.

Every time you agree with something she says, or tell her you feel "the same way," you make her feel good and give her ego a little boost.

When you give her validation, she's going to crave more of it. The more interested and thoughtful you seem, the more thoughtful she will be with her answers.

She'll be trying to impress you, whereas normally it's the guy who is in the position of talking (rather than listening) and trying to say all the right things.

Mood Killers and Articulate Avoidance

There are certain topics which you should always avoid when talking to a female you're trying to mack. These topics include:

• Death
• Communicable diseases
• Any type of violence towards women
• P#rn

Your goal as a Mack is to transport her into another reality-a "comfort zone" where the problems and evils of the world do not exist.

You want to keep the focus on fun, exciting subjects that stimulate romantic possibilities.

Advanced Mack Maneuver: "Polite Interruptions"

Once you're in a groove and the conversation is flowing, inject a "polite interruption." While she's telling you a humorous story, give her a slight touch on her forearm-or if you're sitting next to her, on the leg-and pay her a quick compliment.

It should feel spontaneous, but it's actually a Tactic.

"I'm listening, I had just had to tell you-you have the cutest smile while you're telling this story. I'm sorry, go on."

If there's a good vibe between you, this should cause her to smile and blush. The trick is to say it like you couldn't help yourself. When she returns to telling her story, the chemistry between the two of you should be stronger.

That slight bit of body contact has just removed the invisible barrier between you. From this point forward you should be leaning in closer, narrowing the physical gap.

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Last night I hit one of the hottest clubs in Vegas with my wingman John.

It was Thursday night, when the place is always filled with hammers. (A "target rich environment," as we like to say.)

I noticed an exotic dark-skinned hammer, standing across the room by the dance floor. She was with a friend who was far less attractive.

I could tell they'd come to the club together.

(Have you ever noticed how beautiful girls tend to travel with less-than-beautiful friends? Must be an ego thing.)

Normally Rob would act as my wingman and distract the wack friend, but he was already making his move on some other girl.

I'd have to do this one alone.

I decided to use a Tactic designed for this exact situation.

I'd make the wack friend my wingman without her even knowing it. (I call this technique "flipping," the same way the cops flip a bad guy, make him their informant, and use him to catch the bigger crooks.)

More on this trick here:

 

So I walked over and introduced myself.

It turned out the hammer was named Lisa: tall, beautiful smile, banging body. She introduced me to her friend, and I made sure I introduced myself to her in the same charming manner-I told her my name and gave her a nice smile and a warm handshake.

I knew what I had to do next.

As we began chatting, I positioned my body towards the wack friend and pretended to be into her-more so than Lisa.

I could tell by the way she was smiling, she wasn't used to getting this kind of attention. Especially not when she was out with Lisa.

I chatted with them both, getting some background details.

They were college students visiting from California.

They were staying at a nearby hotel, sharing a room, and had taken a cab over here because they heard it was a cool club.

I dropped a line: "I can't believe your boyfriends let you come to Vegas by yourselves." They giggled and assured me that they didn't have boyfriends.

They probably wouldn't admit it if they did, but I could tell by Lisa's body language that she was indeed single and available.

During this phase of the encounter, I maintained a 30-70 attention ratio. I paid attention to Lisa only 30 percent of the time, while giving the wack friend the rest of my attention.

I was flirting with her, and she was loving it. She probably couldn't believe her luck-when was the last time a guy showed interest in her instead of hot friend Lisa?

So now the friend is laughing at my jokes, flirting back.

She's building me up in front of Lisa-acting as my wingman without even knowing it.

I could tell this was putting Lisa on uncomfortable ground. This type of situation was alien to her. She was trying to smile and be a part of the conversation, but I knew she was feeling jealous and ignored.

All part of my strategy.

Now it was time for the first Break Point of the encounter.

I asked them what kinds of drinks they wanted, then I went to the bar to get them. Obviously, the second I walked away they started talking about me behind my back.

Under normal circumstances, the guy (me) would have been hitting on Lisa, and the wack friend would start trying to discourage her: "He's not all that, let's go to another club," etc.

But instead, because I flipped the friend, she's singing my praises while I'm at the bar. She's blowing me up, telling Lisa how great I am. Now Lisa's starting to feel competitive.

She's also feeling self-conscious, wondering why I'm macking her friend instead of her!

OK, so now it's time to take care of business.

When I return with the drinks, I shift to a 70-30 attention ratio.

Now I'm giving Lisa the majority of my attention and starting to ignore her friend.

After I hand Lisa her drink, I do the "taste test."

I ask her how it tastes, implying that I want to taste it myself. She hands me her drink. I go to put my lips on the straw, then smile and ask her if I'm going to get "cooties" from her.

She laughs and says "no." I take a sip from the straw and hand it back to her. Then she goes ahead and uses the straw.

The straw move is a very subtle technique that works with girls on a subconscious level. Now that we've swapped spit, a kiss won't be much of a leap, right?

At this point, I'm totally in control of the conversation. I'm breaking Lisa down and applying heavy Tactics. I'm locked in with eye contact and I'm guiding the conversation, talking about music, fashion, and travel...all stimulating subjects that we share common interests in.

The whole time, I'm still being polite to the wack friend and keeping her marginally involved. But it's obvious who I'm focusing on. My eye contact is locked in with Lisa.

Now it's too late for the wack friend to get between us.

I've successfully removed her from the equation.

At this stage, if the friend tries to pull Lisa away from me, or tries to badmouth me in any way, Lisa will think she's just being jealous.

Eventually, the friend takes the hint and tells us that she's going to go dance. She wanders off and leaves Lisa and I to get to know each other better.

We got to "know" each other really well late that night :)

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Some guys think it's OK to talk about sex with girls they've just met. They steer the conversation towards sex, or make sexual comments in an attempt to be funny and "spice up" the convo.

Other guys think that talking about sex implies they have a lot of experience in the bedroom, and that women will find this alluring.

Women are generally not interested or impressed by this type of talk.

More likely, they'll think it's crude and juvenile. (Besides, guys who hook up on a regular basis don't need to talk about it.)

But you can get her mind on sensual, erotic thoughts.

The key is to do it in a clever, "invisible" way.

Check out the "invisible" way:

 

As the conversation progresses, test the waters to see how receptive she is to talking about sexual topics.

Scan the room: do you see any couples kissing or dirty dancing? If so, direct her attention to the couple and ask her with a smile, "What do you think about them doing that in a public place?"

If she has no problem with it-or even better, is intrigued by it-then the door is open for you to touch on other sexual topics. Roll with it.

Here are a couple of ways to inject sexuality into the convo:

• Ask her how she defines the word "sexy." After she answers, tell her that in your opinion, sexiness isn't about how someone looks on the surface-it's about confidence and attitude. Women like this answer.

Few women are totally confident in their appearance, but all women like to believe they have confidence and a good attitude.

• Ask her what she thinks is the sexiest part of her body. After she answers, tell her that you did notice that that part of her, but there is another body part that you find most appealing.

This could be her eyes, teeth, hair, neck, her soft hands... there is no standard answer, though you should obviously not mention her breasts or butt.

This type of unexpected compliment should flatter her, and show her that you find beauty in women for many different reasons.

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Neutral Corners
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With a girl you've met that evening-let's say at a nightclub or party- you're better off taking her somewhere "neutral" before trying to bring her back to your place.

If possible, suggest going for some coffee, a bite to eat, or taking a walk outside. Adding this additional step creates the sense that the two of you are on a date, even if you just met an hour ago.

It also makes her feel more secure.

You're not rushing things; you're letting the evening unfold at its own pace.

Just remember that women know the deal just as well as you do. Don't feel embarrassed about your intentions.

You're both adults.

She knows that you're a heterosexual man and your end goal lies in the bedroom. If you've laid the necessary groundwork, then she'll be looking forward to it, too.

Perhaps not on the first night, but that door will eventually open.

She should feel that she has nothing to worry about with you.

For this reason, you should always take her back to your place instead of trying to go to hers. For a lot of women, bringing a guy home is a big deal. It means you know where she lives, and she might not be comfortable with that until she knows you better.

Or, she may have roommates or neighbors who might gossip about her bringing a guy home. She's much more likely to accept an invitation to go to your place than she is to invite you to hers.

If you don't live in a place that you can bring girls home to, then as a Mack you need to fix this ASAP. In order to be an effective Mack, you must have a home base where you can host women.

In the "Mi Casa, Mack Casa" chapter, we'll break this down deep:

 

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Go With the Flow
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If she's up for a one-night stand, and things appear to be heading towards sex, most women still don't want to feel like it's going to be a one-night stand.

Women have been raised to believe that casual sex (sex with someone you're not dating or married to) is wrong and slutty.

While a lot of women do it, they don't always feel good about it afterwards.

One way to cushion this is to establish a "next meeting" during your conversation with her: the idea that regardless of how tonight winds up, the two of you will meet again soon.

She may be thinking the same thing you are-we're probably going to have sex tonight, with no strings attached-but the idea of a "next meeting" may help put her mind at ease.

It's easy to do.

During your chat, mention a movie that's in theatres right now. Tell her a little bit about the movie, get her interested in it, then say "we'll go see it one of these nights."

Or, mention a restaurant you like and say "we should go sometime."

Then move on to another subject. You're not setting up an actual date; you're planting the seed that you would be open to seeing her after tonight.

Some women might ask you point-blank, "Is this just going to be a one-night thing?"

Here's a Tactical reply: "A couple of years ago, my answer might have been yes. But that's not what I'm into now. I think we might have something good here, and I'd like to go with it and see what happens."

With this answer, again, you're not making any promises.

You're just going with the flow and encouraging her to do the same. It's too early to know if this is going to turn into anything serious.

Everything is explained in more detail in the ONS Playbook, but basically, it's necessary for you to go through this stage in order to make her feel comfortable enough to get sexual with you. Women won't "loosen up" and start feeling sexual attraction until you've built some comfort.)

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